a slice of ato’s home life

GBP and I are both working (yes, I know it’s 10:40 at night and I get up at 5, what’s your point?).  Out of the blue he approaches and…

GBP: What’s that word for stick-to-it-iveness?

Me: Perseverance?

GBP: That’s the one.

I’ve literally been giggling for 5 minutes now, muttering “stick-to-it-ivenss” under my breath.  And I still have math to do and rum to drink before I can sleep.  And sorry, no FWW today…

For those of you who may have wondered where I’ve been…

1.  Work is so busy I want to cry.

2.  Children need stuff sometimes.

3.  I got a short spiky new haircut with three colors, though I don’t think the red is bright enough.

4.  I literally fell into an obsession with a new fandom that I’m just now not ridiculously obsessed with (00q…sorrynotsorry)

But the good news is that I’m away on business tonight and fully intend to take myself to dinner somewhere I can see the ocean and write Pinto on my iPad.  While drinking wine.  So there endless amount of work I should be doing instead.

Shipping Meme

I was tagged by @semper-ama (thanks bb!)<3<3<3<3

Top 5 Ships You’ll Go Down With No Matter What

  1. Pinto
  2. Spirk (the mother ship)
  3. Johnlock
  4. Faragorn (don’t judge…because of ONE FIC that killed me ded)
  5. Um, I don’t really have a 5th… tho I read a lot of Maria/Captain Von Trapp for a while, and yeah, no one better get between them.  Good to have one het ship in there I suppose…

I only write in Pinto and Spirk, but I read (and reread) all of these.

I’ll  tag… @suedescripture, @trekbedtimestories, @blushingkate, @rycolfan, @mightymads, @illneverstopsayingyourname, @emilociraptor, @respeckled, @hopeforyouyet, @loves-pie, @elisa-pie

That meme thing.

Rules: tag 20 people you want to get to know better and fill out the questions so they know some stuff about you!

I was tagged by semper-ama.

Name: E

Nickname: Ato

Star sign: Pisces, though I think astrology is utter crap

Gender: Female

Height: 5′4″

Sexual orientation: Het

Romantic orientation: effectively het

Favorite color: blue green

Time right now: 6:29 pm

Hours of sleep: 5-6 weeknights, 7-8 weekends

Lucky number(s): crap

Last thing I googled: hmmm. Seal Beach NWR

Number of blankets I sleep under: 2 (comforter and sheet)

Favorite fictional character: Spock, Sherlock, Darcy, Elizabeth Bennett, Jim Kirk, John Watson, Aragorn (le sigh),  Codi Noline, Faramir,

Favorite celebrities:
Zachary Quinto, Chris
Pine, Duncan Sheik (he counts, he’s won a Tony and two Grammys), Uncle George Takei

Favorite book: Pride and Prejudice

Favorite bands/artists: Zero7, Jamie Cullum, Duncan Sheik, Seal, Thievery Corporation, Elbow, Sonos, Jonatha Brooke, Chopin

Dream trip: I actually traveled quite a bit before kids, so for places I haven’t been, Middle Earth New Zealand

Dream job: retired so I can write.  But actually, my job isn’t that bad, other than stress.  I just whine a lot.

What am I wearing at the moment: “trouser” jeans, blue and white shirt, sweater jacket thing, ankle boots.  Work clothes.

um… I’ll tag mightymads, blushingkate, cannedebonbon, elisa-pie, geiszlerandgaila, hopeforyouyet, itreallyisthelittlethings, keep-calm-and-ks, llongwayfromhome, loves-pie, mikasoze, nixsducky, rycolfan, shards-of-divinity, silent-bridge. trekbedtimestories, talewii, wintry-mix and all the rest of you too.

I will likely stop writing for a while.

I just came home from a trip where I learned that several work projects are not going well, and I really don’t like my job, and my husband told me that he’s felt for YEARS that he’s my lowest priority (after work, girls, online friends and writing).  I think he’s only here now because of the children, which is something I never wanted to model for my kids.

I still love him, and don’t want him to feel like that.  There is only so much of me to go around.

So…

I use writing as an escape from my life.  I need to focus on my life so I don’t need to escape it permanently.